This sounds like a router/gateway configuration issue. And you should check if the router/gateway you are using actually supports WPA3-Personal. You should be able to find the manual on line. (I don't know which router/gateway you are using, do you have a link or a brand and model number?)
The adapter in your 12" Surface most definitely supports WPA3-Personal. I have no trouble here in the US with WPA3 connectivity.